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Subject: Referring to self in second person
Question:
It seems that there's been a trend in increased use of second person when people are referring to themselves in speech.

Example:
Q: ''How did you feel when you lost your job?''

A: ''You're in shock. You get angry, you feel lost. You wonder what you could've done differently, but you have to move on.''


Has there been any linguistic research done on this aspect of language use? I'm trying to remember when I first noticed it. Thank you very much for any information you can provide.

Reply:
I'm not sure that it's a recent trend or that it's a form of self-reference. As Prof. Foster suggests, it's a generic, and as Prof. Rowe writes, it depersonalizes. The Oxford English Dictionary Online cites uses of generic "you" from as far back as the 16th c. I suspect it's found more in informal speech, and it's certainly common in giving instructions, as in, "You take the line in your left hand and pull out about three feet of it." Certainly the speaker is speaking to someone, but the "you" has a sense of "anyone who wants to do this." It's something of an informal substitute for "one," and The Oxford English Grammar gives the example, "...one feels that if you create too many..."

Reply From: Herbert Frederic Stahlke    click here to access email
Date: May-08-2009
Other Replies:
  1. Re: Referring to self in second person Charley Rowe    (May-08-2009)
  2. Re: Referring to self in second person Joseph F Foster    (May-08-2009)
  3. Re: Referring to self in second person James L Fidelholtz    (May-08-2009)
  4. Re: Referring to self in second person Elizabeth J Pyatt    (May-11-2009)
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