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|Subject:||Trilingual child, day care suggests teaching English at home|
|Question:||Dear experts, We live in the US (community language is English). My wife is a native Chinese speaker and I am a native German speaker. Our child is 2 years old. She has been in daycare since she was 6 months old. We use OPOL with no English spoken to our child. But we do usually converse in English between us in front of the child. Our daycare teacher strongly suggested in a recent conversation that we should teach her the English words as well. Otherwise our child would have a high probability of acting out because of a building frustration due to a lack of communication/language ability. This does not seem to fit with OPOL or MLAH. It certainly would also not feel natural to me. Also, if our little one says an English word my reaction is to acknowledge that it is a proper word in English and that ''in German it's ...''. So far I have not given the learning English part much thought. After all it is the community language and she has 40 hours per week of scheduled exposure to it. It should come just naturally. If we get 40 hours per week of German and Chinese, I think we are lucky. What are your thoughts?|
|Reply:||I fully agree with you. You are doing and thinking exactly what we parents did and thought in my family, when school authorities also “suggested”, in the same strong terms as they did to you, to use English at home. They invoked all sorts of cognitive, academic and emotional underachievement if we “persisted” in using “so many” languages to our children. Our home languages were Swedish and Portuguese at the time, those that my husband and I used. Our children learned their English in school, from and with their peers. So much so that English became their own peer language, which they use among themselves still today, as adults. It’s precisely as you say: there’s no need to give “the learning English part much thought.” In circumstances such as yours and ours, the school/community language will not fail to be learned. Madalena|
|Reply From:||Madalena Cruz-Ferreira click here to access email|