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I am not qualified to speak about English in general, but I have observed that some of the argument is based on statements that are not universally true. I don't know the source of the usage, but in my family we call children by the same type of term about equally. That is, I am as likely to yell "Daughter, you have a phone call" as "Son, get down the stairs and do the dishes". Similarly, I use both terms to indicate closeness: "Nice job, son", "Good one, daughter!". My husband has (I think) picked it up from me, but my brother's family does this too. Carolyn Ostrander clostranMail to author|Respond to list|Read more issues|LINGUIST home page|Top of issuemailbox.syr.edu